Valentine’s Day can be challenging for us all, so If you’re looking for a way to completely seduce your sweetie on V-Day, you’ve come to the right place! Does the thought of Valentine’s Day evoke feelings of excitement, joy, and love, or stress and worry? V-day has long been the Day of Love, but it doesn’t have to be filled with anxiety or feel like your pocketbook is going to break to make it a special day (or night!). Many get lost in unconscious gift-giving and buying (kinda like Christmas) and forget about the intimacy and connection of Valentine’s Day. So…here are some amazing tips that, when applied, can assist with seducing your sweetie on V-Day or any other day, for that matter!
1. The little things matter! (and not just on Valentine’s Day)
Regardless of what day it is, you should always make it a point to communicate effectively with your partner. Taking the time to inquire about their day, their triumphs, or any hardships they may have encountered while listening intently without being an “advice giver” is a great communicative stance. Make an extra effort to look your partner in the eyes on Valentine’s Day, locking eyes when communicating, and maintaining contact in a non-sexual way such as hair touching or back rubbing. Eye contact during these moments can be extra powerful. Another great way to show your partner how much they’re appreciated on V-Day is to communicate beforehand as to what activities you might both enjoy. Picking up a class, enjoying a meal together, taking a mini trip, or even just heading outdoors for some outside fun are all great connection building ideas to share with your Valentine! Not the activity type? That’s okay! Pick up some of your significant others’ errands or house chores or do something else thoughtful that they would appreciate. Although simple, these small intimacies not only assist in building physical anticipation but also in strengthening the mental and emotional connection between the two of you. If this were the last day you had with your partner, how would you treat them?
2. Plan, organize, & succeed!
We’ve seen way too many people wait until the last minute to pick up a gift or make plans for Valentine’s Day. If you’re going out to dinner–pick someplace new. This will add some excitement to your night. Just make sure you do your research and pick a spot you’ll both enjoy that will bring out that fun-loving curiosity in each of you. Also, make sure to call in advance for reservations. Reservations definitely come in handy, especially on Valentine’s Day! If you’d like to surprise your sweetheart with a gift, try and find something you know they want or need. Take them shopping someplace they enjoy or to do something they love. You can also shop for a connective gift like our adult Play Boxes! The cost is the same as your entire night may be and it will bring pleasure to you both in multiple ways! If you’re the “plan for home” type, make the effort to turn your home or room into a lover’s sanctuary. Our “Frequent Foreplay” box is great for this! Change up your room so its a fort for the two of you or draw a bath for you to share! Flowers, rose petals, fur throws, & candles, can go a long way in transforming your space. Add a nice massage oil or some essential oils for a great finishing touch. Remember, though… lack of effort on either part will make for a very typical and unmemorable evening.
3. Build some anticipation heading into Valentine’s Day
Seriously though, anticipation is an amazing tool! It can excite, arouse, tease, drive desire, and increase libido. Perhaps keep penetration off the table until you two are literally ripping each other’s clothes off. Our “Mindful Massage” box is great for achieving this! You can build up extreme anticipation and give/get an incredible massage at the same time! Participating in experiences that are erotic or intimate can really get the juices flowing. A hot bubble bath or shower together, surrounded by candles, accompanied by a nice glass of wine; yes, please! Maybe some music to shake your sexy self to, or even give your partner an arousing lap dance. Spend some time exploring one another before any penetration takes place. Want some tools to enhance the fun? Our “Anatomical Exploration” box will do just that. This box assists you in discovering different erogenous areas on the body using fun stimulating items. Experiences like this that keep you grounded in the present moment not only build physical connection but a deeply emotional connection as well. Valentine’s Day is all about spending it with your loved ones and appreciating them for who and what they are. Live in the moment with them today and see how it assists with bringing you two closer.
4. Don’t let expectations ruin your Valentine’s Day
Expectations are great in some instances, however, having expectations on Valentine’s Day could be a recipe for disaster. If you’re expecting a V-Day filled with gifts and treasures and don’t receive it, how do you think you might feel? Will you look to place blame on your partner or loved one? Or will you look to the one who held the expectation in the first place? Regardless of which partner you are or the expectation you might have, just let it go. Remember, just because your partner doesn’t shower you with gifts, 1000 roses, or endless oral, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Learn to appreciate them for what they are able to offer and be grateful that you’ve found another to share this special day with… even if you don’t get a bunch of monetary extras.
I know it seems like a ridiculous recommendation, but you’d be surprised at how many couples don’t take the time to communicate about their Valentine’s Day intentions. Keep the line of communication open with one another, this way you avoid those pesky expectations we just discussed. You can both communicate which ideas or plans you’d like to incorporate into your day so nobody is disappointed.
Trust us. It’s better to communicate and plan than to wait for a surprise that may never come. Disappointment is not the emotion you’re aiming for. Remember, loving compliments and gestures are always great to give to any partner. Seduce their mind and their body will follow. A long, deep, stare from across the room can have a tantalizing effect. Use your body language to communicate your burning desire for them. If your partner moves closer – no problem! Subtly caress your partner’s arm, back, or legs to enhance the physical enticement. Can’t resist any longer? Move-in closer and seduce them with your lips, gently touching yours to theirs. Visuals and physical stimulation work great as well. Get ready like it’s your first date. Bust out your sexiest outfit. Play with them. Flirt with them. Tease them a little bit. Communicate your desires with words and then communicate your intentions with your body language.
Some meaningful tips:
♥ – Leave some cute post it’s in places you know your lover will see. Some of our favorites include the bathroom mirror, the front door, the car, and especially the kitchen. Tell them things you love about them, or write them love notes or sweet nothings. 📝💌 💝
♥ – Keep your communication open via email, text, phone, or messaging. Send some sexy photos for anticipation or just send a simple reminder that they are on your mind. 📸 💋
♥ – Give the gift of You. Quality time together is the most important part of Valentine’s Day, or any day, for that matter. Don’t let this point be lost in all the V-Day hype. Appreciate the opportunity you have to spend some time together. Shower each other with affection and your unwavering attention. This will make your Valentine’s Day or any other day an enduring success. 👨❤️👩 👩🏽❤️👩👨🏿❤️👨
♥ – Finally, just remember to have fun and just Love! That’s what this day is all about. Whether you have a partner or you’re single, spend Valentine’s Day with someone you love and appreciate in your life. It can even be a V-Day just for you if that’s what you want. Just remember to let go of the stressors that come with Valentine’s Day, enjoy it, and allow love to guide you. Embrace these tips and use them as your guide to completely seduce your partner on any day, not just Valentine’s Day. 💏💘